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What is a one-on-one meeting?

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A one-on-one is a recurring private conversation between a manager and a direct report about the work, the obstacles and the person's growth.

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A one-on-one is a regular private meeting between a manager and one report.

It belongs to the direct report as much as to the manager. It covers the work, the obstacles in the way and the person's growth, and it runs on a fixed rhythm, often weekly or every two weeks, rather than only when something goes wrong.

It is also called a 1:1 or a one-to-one.

Most problems are first mentioned in a one-on-one.

It is where nearly every retention signal surfaces first. A cancelled one-on-one is not a saved half hour, it is the main channel where you would have heard about a problem.

A useful one-on-one has a simple structure.

Start with the report's own topics, then the obstacles in the way of the work and who can remove them. Talk about growth at least monthly, and write down the follow-ups each person owns before next time.

A one-on-one is different from the other meetings on the calendar.

  • A team meeting or a status update is about the work of the group. A one-on-one is about one person.
  • A stay interview is an occasional structured conversation about what keeps someone here. A one-on-one is the regular habit that makes that conversation easy.
  • A skip-level meeting is with the manager's manager, and happens every few months.
  • A performance review looks back over months. A one-on-one deals with this week, so the review holds no surprises.

A good sign is that the report does most of the talking. If the manager talks for most of the half hour, it has turned into a briefing.

These questions keep the conversation honest.

  • What is taking more of your energy than it should?
  • What would you change about how the team works?
  • Is there anything you are not getting from me?
  • Where do you want to be in a year, and are we helping?

Protect the meeting even in busy weeks.

Move it rather than cancel it. Take an invented manager with 8 reports who meets each for 30 minutes a week: that is 4 hours, a tenth of a 40-hour week. Cancelling saves the time and loses the channel.

If 4 hours a week is not possible, the team is probably too wide. That is a span of control problem, and it shows up in turnover a few quarters later.

These are the common mistakes with one-on-ones.

  • Turning it into a status update that could have been a message.
  • Cancelling it whenever the week is busy.
  • Letting the manager set the whole agenda.
  • Never talking about growth, so the first career conversation happens at the exit interview.

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These related terms are in the glossary too.

  • Skip-level meeting

    A skip-level meeting is a conversation between an employee and their manager's manager, without the direct manager present.

  • Stay interview

    A stay interview is a structured conversation with a current employee about what keeps them here and what would make them consider leaving.

  • Employee engagement

    Employee engagement is how committed and involved people are in their work and their company, beyond simply doing the tasks assigned to them.

  • Resignation signal

    A resignation signal is an observable change that tends to precede someone giving notice, such as a public profile refresh, a withdrawal from optional work, or a shift in visible career activity.

  • Span of control

    Span of control is the number of direct reports a manager has.

  • Flight risk

    Flight risk is the likelihood that a specific employee leaves in the near future, based on observable signals rather than a manager's hunch.

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